Shona was bright, hard working and personable, but she always felt unusually nervous and anxious in the lead up to interviews.
Her mind would race. She would worry about failing, forgetting what she had practiced, or being too rushed in her answers. She worried she wasn’t good enough. She would also experience physical symptoms like sweating, shaking, and nausea. Her anxiety was affecting her promotions, her self-esteem, and her mental health. She decided to try hypnotherapy after reading some positive reviews online. She booked a session. She was a bit skeptical at first, but she was willing to give it a try. During the session, Shona was guided into a state of deep relaxation and focused awareness. Shona identified and reframed the negative thoughts and beliefs that were causing her anxiety. She also learned some simple self-hypnosis techniques that she could use before and during exams to calm herself down and boost her confidence. After a few sessions, Shona felt she was ready to turn things around. She knew she was smart, and now it was time to prove it. She felt relaxed, confident, and prepared for her interviews and even simple things like end of year reviews. She was able to recall what she had learned and present her thoughts effectively. She also learned to give herself a break, to recognise and be proud of her achievements. Shona is one of the many students who have benefited from hypnotherapy to overcome interview anxiety. Hypnotherapy can help you reduce your anxiety and fear of failure, as well as enhance your memory, concentration, and motivation. If you want to learn more about how hypnotherapy can help you, reach out below and book your free consultation. You’ll be glad you did. 😊
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Claire (name changed for privacy) was a smoker for 15 years before she switched to vaping, thinking it was a safer alternative.
However, she soon realized that vaping was just as addictive and harmful as smoking, and decided she wanted to quit for good. She tried all the usual methods, like nicotine patches, gum, and medication, but none of them worked for her. She felt frustrated and hopeless, and wondered if she would ever be free from nicotine. That’s when she heard about hypnotherapy and how it helps people quit smoking and vaping without medication and terrible side-effects. She decided to give it a try, and booked a free consultation. When we spoke we talked about how hypnotherapy is a natural and effective way to change the subconscious beliefs and habits that keep people hooked on nicotine. She also learned that hypnotherapy is not mind control or magic, but a collaborative process that empowers the client to take charge of their own health and well-being. Claire signed up for a customized quit vaping program that consisted of two sessions over two weeks. In each session, she was guided into a relaxed state of mind, where she received positive suggestions and affirmations that reinforced her desire to quit vaping. She also learned some self-hypnosis techniques that she could use at home to cope with any cravings or triggers. She felt more confident and motivated after each session, and noticed that her urge to vape was gradually decreasing. By the end of the 2-week program, Claire was completely vape-free. She felt proud of herself and happy with her achievement. She noticed that she had more energy, better breathing, and improved sense of taste and smell. She also saved a lot of money that she used to spend on vaping products. She said that quitting vaping was the best decision she ever made, and that hypnotherapy was the best tool she ever used. If you want to follow Claire’s example and quit vaping for good, book your free consultation today. You have nothing to lose but your addiction. You can do it! Diets and exercise programs are the worst, aren’t they?
They take so much energy and work, and always end up in frustration and broken dreams. I know because I see the people that have tried every diet and exercise program in the book, and come to me bitter and resentful at these programs, and at the end of their tether looking for a last resort alternative solution. Mary (name changed) was I guess someone that I might describe as a shining star client. She had struggled with multiple weight issues that affected her physical and mental well-being. Her self-esteem was shattered when I first met her. She had tried various diets and exercise regimes, but nothing seemed to work for her. She felt unhappy with her appearance and had low self-confidence. She decided to try hypnotherapy after reading about its benefits on our website. She booked a session and was ready to go. In her session, I used various techniques to help Mary relax, and feel at ease. I guided her into a deep state of relaxation, where we accessed her subconscious mind and updated her negative thoughts and feelings about her weight with positive ones. I also gave her suggestions to improve her eating habits and lifestyle, such as eating smaller portions, drinking more water, choosing healthy foods, and enjoying physical activity. Then we went over some self-hypnosis techniques that she could use on her own to reinforce the changes she made. After her session, Mary felt more confident and happy about her health and outlook on life. She noticed that she had less appetite and more energy. She started to eat better and exercise more regularly. She said that hypnotherapy made it easy and natural for her to lose weight and maintain it. She said that hypnotherapy changed her life and that she was proud of herself for achieving her goal. Hypnotherapy can help you lose weight and keep it off for good. Hypnotherapy is a natural and effective method that uses the power of your subconscious mind to change your eating habits and lifestyle. Hypnotherapy can help you reduce your appetite, increase your metabolism, eliminate cravings, and boost your motivation and self-esteem. If you are looking to lose weight or have any other issue that is affecting your quality of life, hypnotherapy can help you too. Book a free consultation today. It’s possible that I could help you to transform your life with hypnotherapy! I know how challenging it is having a fear of flying that prevents someone from traveling to their dream destinations. Seeing family, friends, exotic vacation spots.
I know because I see it all the time. Many people suffer from aerophobia, which is an irrational and excessive fear of flying or being in an airplane. This fear can cause anxiety, panic attacks, nausea, sweating, and other unpleasant symptoms that make flying a nightmare. Jane (name changed) was one of my clients who had a severe fear of flying. She had avoided flying for years, even though she so eagerly wanted to visit her family overseas. She hesitantly decided to try hypnotherapy as a last resort, after hearing about its benefits from a friend. In her session, we used various techniques to help Jane overcome her fear of flying. We guided her into a deep state of relaxation, where we accessed her subconscious mind and helped her update her negative thoughts and feelings about flying with positive ones. I gave her a few unconscious suggestions to boost her confidence and self-esteem, to cope with any stress or anxiety that might arise during her flight. I also taught her some self-hypnosis techniques that she could use on her own before and during her flight. After her session, Jane felt calm and optimistic about flying. She booked her flight to see her family and was amazed at how smooth it all went. She said that she felt no fear or anxiety at all, and that she actually enjoyed the view from the window. She was able to relax and have a pleasant conversation with the person next to her. She said that hypnotherapy changed her life and that she was looking forward to traveling more in the future. Hypnotherapy can be your ally to help you overcome a fear of flying and enjoy traveling again. It is a natural and safe method that uses the power of the subconscious mind to change negative beliefs and emotions about flying. Hypnotherapy can help you relax, feel confident, and trust that you are safe and secure in the air. If you have a fear of flying or any other issue that is holding you back from living your best life, hypnotherapy can be your ally too. I would love to help you achieve your goals and dreams. Book your free consultation today! You probably know how hard it is to quit smoking. You’ve tried everything, but nothing seems to work.
You’re not alone. Samantha was in the same boat. She had been smoking for over 20 years and couldn’t quit no matter what she did. She was sick of the smell, the cost, and the health risks. She wanted to quit, but she didn’t know how. Then she heard about hypnosis and decided to give it a shot. Hypnosis is a way of changing the subconscious mind. It helps get rid of the negative thoughts and feelings that make you want to smoke. It’s not magic, it’s science. It works by relaxing your body and mind and giving you positive suggestions that make you feel good. Samantha was a bit nervous at first, but she trusted in the process. I made her feel comfortable and explained everything to her, guiding her through a relaxing session that lasted about an hour. She felt amazing afterwards. She didn’t have any cravings or withdrawal symptoms. She didn’t even think about smoking anymore. She was done. Samantha has been smoke-free for over six months now and she loves it. She feels healthier, happier, and more confident. She has more money in her pocket and more time for her hobbies. She is proud of herself and thankful for hypnosis. If you want to quit smoking like Samantha did, hypnosis can help you too. It’s easy, safe, and effective. Quitting smoking can be hard but if you want to give yourself every possible chance to give up for good then please reach out. If you’re ready to quit smoking for good, get in touch for a zero obligation chat and find out how I can help you. I’ve had clients quit who spent more in a fortnight on cigarettes than it cost to see me. Don’t wait any longer. Do yourself a favour, take the first step today and start living the smoke-free life you want. I hope to hear from you soon. Dealing with anxiety is something that is very real, very present and really annoying for most of us at one point or another. Right now, with elections around the corner and dire but mixed messages about the economy, anxiety is a lot more real, and a lot more present for some of us.
So I thought that I might talk a bit about some of the anxiety I’ve helped people though along with the outcomes that those people have had. Strangely enough, with the caveat that people have to be willing to change some of the things they are doing, it’s even one of the easier things to beat. By way of example there is this lady, who I’ll call Anna, who initially was quite outgoing etc. She lost her house and her job during the big Christchurch quake and spent the next couple of years arguing with the insurance company. Anyway, during the course of all this she found herself withdrawing from society. It took her a while to notice but she lost interest in all the things that she loved to do with other people. She found herself making excuses as to why she didn’t need to go outside, find new work, join social activities. Eventually, to her horror, she realised that she didn’t even recognise herself anymore. She couldn’t point to any ‘one thing’ in her life beyond the earthquake but it just seemed like ‘every thing’ was somehow slightly nerve-wracking, or difficult, or too tiring. Eventually she got in touch with me because I work online. I wish I could say that it was due to referrals but she wasn’t really interacting with the outside world at that point. We arranged a single session, the thought of committing to more than that was too much for her, although, in the end we did two sessions. We didn’t speak too much about her experiences, instead I reminded her of who she was. We woke up long slumbering parts of her, allowed some bad habits to dissolve and taught her to take advantage of her own forgotten resilience. In all, I think we took around three hours over two weeks. When she contacted me again a month later she was talking about the yoga classes she was taking, a role-playing group she had joined and how she had updated her CV and was actively looking for work with some interested nibbles from potential employers. As always, look after yourselves out there but remember that I’m fairly approachable if you would like some help. Sometimes it’s the seemingly littlest things that end up causing people the most grief, which test us in the most unexpected ways. I thought I’d talk today about a client who I’m going to call Julia. I found it strangely inspiring, oddly enough a story of resilience, determination, and the unyielding human spirit. This story affects only a few people directly but I think it's still worth a read.
Julia's had a problem she found embarrassing, deeply frustrating, and a surprisingly big challenge: a shy bladder. The inability to urinate in certain public situations, particularly her employer's mandatory drug testing, placed her in deeply distressing circumstances. Her job was on the line, and the burden of managing her condition while juggling her bustling family life and her cherished career in the police was overwhelming. It may seem like a little thing but she felt like it was really holding her back. So she did something about it. She refused to let this challenge define her. The prospect of losing her job was a harsh reality, rather than give up, or let embarrassment define her. She sought guidance, researched solutions, and embarked on a personal journey of transformation, eventually contacting me. Her journey wasn't without its struggles. She told me that there were moments of frustration and doubt, times when the weight of it all threatened to overwhelm her. But Julia's commitment to her family, her police role, and her own growth was unswerving. With each step, she found strength within herself that she never knew existed. Amid the chaos of her daily life, Julia's commitment to a few regular hypnotherapy sessions became her sanctuary. The mindfulness and self-awareness cultivated in just a few sessions began to permeate every aspect of her life. It provided her with the tools to manage her anxieties, breathe through challenges, and emerge stronger on the other side. Today it's no longer an issue for Julia. She not only overcame a daunting and very personal challenge, but she confided in our last session that she feels that she might be a better cop for it. I like Julia's story because I think it teaches us that no challenge is insurmountable when we are prepared to take the plunge and reach out to get help. The sky is the limit when we are prepared to invest in our own mental state and take a deep look at ourselves and what we are prepared to admit to ourselves. I hope Julia's journey serves as a reminder that within each of us lies the power to rise above obstacles, and to be prepared to admit when we need help sometimes. I hope that you can match Julia's spirit and find the strength to conquer them. Stay inspired, just like Julia, Dear friends,
We all face our own demons, some seen and some unseen. Today, we look at Gary's journey - a story of resilience, grit, and ultimate triumph over adversity. As a pillar of his community and respected real estate agent, Gary appeared to be sailing smoothly through life. But beneath the surface, he was wrestling with some dark demons: the bottle. Gary's job, while rewarding, came with its fair share of stress and late nights. The relentless pace and pressure, coupled with the social expectations of his role, led Gary to lean on alcohol as a coping mechanism. He found himself in the grip of a dependency he neither wanted nor welcomed. Despite the overwhelming odds, Gary decided to confront his addiction. It was a brave choice, especially when maintaining the façade of a strong community leader. His decision came from an understanding that the stakes were high - for his health, his career, and his reputation. The path to sobriety wasn't easy. He battled cravings, withdrawal symptoms, and the societal pressure of his high-profile job. But Gary stood firm. He leaned on professional help, and discovered healthier ways to manage stress. There were moments of doubt and temptation, days when the façade threatened to crack. But through it all, Gary remained focused on his goal. His commitment to sobriety never wavered, even when the journey seemed impossible. Today, Gary has successfully navigated the choppy waters to a sober life. His journey is a powerful testament to the strength of human resolve. His story is not just of overcoming alcohol addiction, but also of breaking free from societal expectations to prioritize personal well-being. We celebrate Gary's victory and hope his journey inspires anyone battling their own demons. Remember, we're all in this together, extending support whenever needed. Stand tall, just like Gary, We all face trials that test our strength and resilience. For Mary, it was quitting smoking while balancing a stressful, demanding job and a bustling family life. Today, we look at Mary's journey - a testament to her unwavering determination and strength.
At a time when life was already fraught with challenges, Mary made the conscious, and final decision to quit smoking. Between conference calls, taking the kids to rugby practices, and family dinners, she found herself wrestling with cravings and withdrawal symptoms. Each nicotine pang was a reminder of the old comfort she was trying to give up, an echo of a past habit. But Mary saw beyond the immediate struggle. She was aware of the toll smoking was taking on her health and how it affected her family. She wanted to set a good example for her children, and she knew that quitting smoking was a crucial step in that direction. So, she persevered. Amid the pressures of her job and the chaos of family life, she consistently chose health and wellness. She sought support, found strategies to manage her cravings, and took one day at a time. There were tough days, of course. Days when the workload was heavy, the kids were chaotic, and the urge to light a cigarette was nearly overpowering. But Mary held on. She reminded herself of her reason for quitting - her family, her health, her future. Today, Mary stands victorious, having successfully navigated her way to a smoke-free life. Her journey serves as a reminder of what we can achieve when we set our minds to it, no matter how challenging the path may seem. We celebrate Mary's triumph and hope her story inspires those facing similar struggles. Remember, we're all in this together, always ready to lend support. Stay strong, just like Mary, Dear friends,
Life can sometimes feel like a maze with unexpected turns, and navigating personal relationships, particularly during times of strain, can significantly add to that complexity. We're dealing with the nuances of human emotions here, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution. But remember, even in the darkest hours, there is always a beacon of hope. Strained relationships can make us question our worth, our decisions, and our futures. Whether it's with a spouse, a family member, or a friend, it's essential to remember that it's okay to seek help. Professional advice can provide invaluable perspective, facilitating understanding and guiding us towards resolution or acceptance. Divorce is a life-altering event that brings with it not only legal implications but a whirlwind of emotions. During such times, it's important to prioritize self-care. Lean on your support network, allow yourself time to grieve, and remember, seeking professional help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards healing. And then there’s parenting - arguably the world's most demanding job. The challenges can range from daily hurdles to long-term worries about your children's futures. Remember, there's no such thing as a perfect parent. We all make mistakes, we all learn, and that's okay. The key is to provide love, understanding, and guidance to our little ones, even as we navigate our own challenges. Despite the trials these situations may bring, they also offer us a chance for growth, self-discovery, and resilience. Lean on the people around you, seek professional help when needed, and remember to show yourself the same kindness you would offer to others. Ready to put the joy back into living? Hypnotherapy can take you on a journey to unravel the tangles in your mind. Whether feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or perhaps even as if you’re drowning in the sea of life, hypnotherapy can help bring a new sense of calm and wellbeing to your life. Click below to book your free consultation today. You're not alone in this journey. Together, we can navigate these mazes, one turn at a time. Stay strong, |
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